Self Perception

I have too high of expectations for myself and other people. When someone or myself has "failed" in my perception, it is very hard to let go. I can't overlook things that have not worked out according to how I planned it... I have to pick it apart and look at it from every angle in order to have some kind of logical reason in my head as to WHY it happened. Instead of just accepting the fact that some things happen in life for no particular reason or maybe there is a reason which will greatly benefit my future but it can not be seen as so right now; I dissect each experience, conversation or negative occurrence until I feel like I know what went wrong. (Or until I've completely stressed myself out, became sick to my stomach and lost sleep over analyzing the perceived mistakes and missed out on the present moment of life!) LOL I told myself today that I'm on the verge of another "break through" in my life. I am either going to let go of something or I am going to accept it and stop resisting. Whatever I choose or whatever happens, I know it will be for the best. I believe that the loving and positive energy in the Universe will guide me in the right direction.