Finding the "I Am" in Me

Sunday, November 19, 2006

A Different Spin?

I wonder what would happen if I changed my thinking to spin all of my thoughts in a positive manner? Instead of worrying or obsessing on things that have already happened or have not happened yet, remaining present with each moment. It would take a lot of mental focus to stop all of these thoughts. But I'm starting to believe it would be better for my sanity. It's so hard to continually repress my feelings. And why should I? Because I label them as bad or not right? Because maybe somewhere in my past someone was critical of me? What if I told myself, "these are my feelings and it's ok!" These feelings (good or bad) are a part of me. So in denying them, I am essentially denying myself. I am keeping myself inside my concrete wall. What if for once, I started being on my own team? I could be the coach, the talented athlete and the cheerleader! It would be mental and emotional harmony. If I could allow myself to have the feeling, acknowledge it as "thinking" and let it go, my life would be a lot less stressful.

1 Comments:

At 1:46 PM, Blogger StickOnTheBeach said...

Yes, life would be so much Happier! Labels, right/wrong, should haves, they all make life so unbearable at times and accompish nothing except make us miserable.
I find I need to also be accepting of my not being accepting of myself and then I can let it go.
It helps to be reminded that we are OK, just as we are. Especially when we so often forget.
You are very wise and should listen to yourself more often. Remember it is not a "could" it is an "is" of who you are.

 

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